#amediting (finally…)

I finished NaNoWriMo on 30 November last year and felt unstoppable. Exhausted, but inspired. I felt I could continue the same pace and edit through December, query in January and be onto the next manuscript in February.


While that may have been an achievable time frame in some distant period in my life, with two kids, study, work, volunteering, and only a short 24 hours in a day, things did not go to plan…

After December rolled by and I hadn’t opened my manuscript, I rationalised to myself, ‘it’s OK, I’m letting the manuscript marinate for a while’. I’ve heard of this- taking a step away from it, waiting for a short period before revisiting it. I used this theory as almost an excuse for the following two months, although not believing it, just to make myself feel better as my grand plan slipped away.

Consequently, four- almost five- months later, I do see the value in taking a step back from my manuscript. In this time, I’ve read a few books. While they’ve not been in the same genre, I’ve reflected on what I liked about them, what I didn’t like. I’ve related these lessons learned to my own work.

If I had followed my timeline and managed to edit my manuscript in December, I’m very confident it would have been a spelling / grammar, timeline logic check type of edit. I was so proud of finishing my 80,000 words that I was too close to it to make serious changes.

Months later, I feel I can slash and burn! I need to put more description and thought into my baddies, understand the events from their point of view. I need to ‘show, don’t tell’ more, I need to make the struggle harder for my main character- more needs to go wrong, she needs more of a fight- and she needs more flaws!

One of the fantastic books I read recently made me sit on the edge of my seat and bite my nails wondering if the main character was going to be found out, things got close, the struggle was hard, things went wrong, it made me want to keep turning the pages even though it was 2:00am. I want that from my book too.

This time of reflection, of space from my manuscript, of learning through reading other work, has been valuable and important to my work. Even though I was feeling ‘behind schedule’, I will have a better finished product at the end of the day.

Now I can finally say it: #amediting.

Watch out for my novel, released some time in 2058, maybe.

I’d love to hear how your writing is going. Who’s editing now? Do you find that time away from your manuscript helps with your editing process, or does it mean you lose momentum?

2019: The Year of Balance

Fitting writing into my life has been one big balancing act. I’m a Stay At Home Mum*, I run a playgroup, have my eldest starting a pre-preschool (yes, this is apparently a thing), I’ve been managing study, volunteering, casual work, as well as the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, kids activities, family time demands everyone else shares.

*I hate that term, as if I actually ‘stay at home’- the house would be trashed all the time and the kids would be stir-crazy.

Then at the end of the day, when their sweet little peaceful heads hit the pillow**, now it’s time for me- generally for writing, if I don’t collapse of exhaustion first.

**I joke, of course, we spend way too long battling bedtime and the housework, then they wake up fifty times through the night. Not asking for unsolicited parenting advice here, it’s just a reality that we will get through.

I’m definitely a night owl, I see 5:00am writer’s club posts, and take my hat off to all of you. Five a.m. is not morning in my world, it’s still ‘the middle of the night’; what I say to my 3 year old if he dares suggest it’s morning. I would much rather, and do sometimes, stay up to 1:00am, even 2:00am writing rather than wake up early in the morning.

There’s something about the night for me. It’s peaceful and quiet (mostly- except when my 3 year old has nightmares about baby zebras biting his feet). My creativity comes out at night, there’s generally no phone messages or emails or anything happening, it’s finally time for me to focus and get all my ideas down.

Sleep deprivation has been the primary method for me fitting in writing time. I’m definitely not encouraging this, it’s not a long-term strategy and something that effected how I could cope with everything during the day. It worked in November for NaNoWriMo, primarily because I knew it was for a short term and I had all the hype and support to push through it for a month.

After November, writing stalled. Christmas, family visitors, family holidays, sicknesses, catch ups, and boom- here we are at mid-to-late January and I haven’t opened my NaNoWriMo manuscript since 30 November.

As hard as it’s going to be for me, I’m going to have to learn patience. I desperately want to edit my manuscript, call for beta readers, query, publish, work on book #2, but I need to accept that this will all take time. Particularly when writing is, at this point in time, a midnight hobby for me.

2019 will be a year for me to balance my very energetic two boys and the big kid’s transition to pre-preschool, a new casual job, running playgroup, study, volunteering, and trying to fit writing into the gaps, corners and nights where I can. But sleep will also need to be shuffled up on the priority list. Sleep effects everything else, and is a big part of self-care that I often ignore.

I’d love to hear how other writers out there fit everything into their worlds. From the Twitter and Instagram #WritingCommunity I’ve read some have full-time jobs, young families, other creative pursuits and hobbies, some managing their own or family health issues. How are you managing to maintain balance and fit writing into your busy lives?

NaNoWriMo: A marathon AND a sprint

My journey to 50K

Like many other writers in November, I accepted the NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) challenge to write 50,000 words in one month. I had been thinking about my YA sci-fi manuscript for a bit over a year, and had only managed to get around 20,000 words down, so the appeal of NaNoWriMo was to finish this manuscript, adding 50,000 words to my current word count and finishing on 30 November at 70,000 words.

On day one, 1,667 words per day seemed very achievable, easy, so I thought!  For those who have entered data through the NaNoWriMo website, you know there is a graph tracking your actual word count against the target. I stayed on target for the first seven days. Then, life happened.

From day seven, my word count graph plateaued until day 16. There was a bout of sickness in our family, birthday parties, my husband traveling, playgroup craft preparation (rocket ships take a loooooot of prep time), exhaustion… As well as committing to writing I am a full-time Mum to two very energetic (some may say ‘wild’) kids. On day 16, I had 12,010 words down, and the graph showed I should have been on 26,666. Less than half the number of words than that target line predicted, and over half way through November. I had seven zero-word days. An easy point to give up!

From day 17, I had to write significantly more words per day to reach the finish line. My best writing day was 5,500 words- and that was between 8:30pm and 2:00am after the kids went to sleep! (And no, they both don’t sleep through the night, so add a few wake-ups and re-settles in there). I participated in Twitter NaNoWriMo sprints, I tried to write while kids napped, I slept a whole lot less…!

At lunchtime of day 30, the final day of the NaNoWriMo challenge, I did it. I finished my 50,000 words, bringing my manuscript’s total to 70,000 words. It felt incredible, I know why they call it ‘winning’, not just ‘completing’ or ‘finishing’. I did feel like a winner! November felt like a marathon AND a sprint at the same time, but it was so worthwhile for me.

What I learnt


The biggest thing I will take away from NaNoWriMo is how to make writing a priority in my life. I will always be busy, everyone is. Kids, family, playgroup, study, housework, friends, down-time, husband-time. But when I shifted my priority to writing in November (after kids that always come first, of course), I achieved my goal. I left the dishes until the next day, didn’t watch TV or procrastinate, and as soon as the kids closed their eyes I pulled out my laptop and sprinted hard. I couldn’t continue to do it every day like I did in November, but if I made writing the priority even a few nights a week, I would make a lot of progress.


I had been reluctant in joining Twitter and Instagram, I’m not into social media in my personal life, but I’m so glad I did join and interact. The writing community is amazingly supportive, encouraging, hilarious, and wonderful! In a world where people are tearing each other down online, the writing community seems to be nothing but positive. People were encouraging others no matter what their journey. Cheering those on for achieving their goals, supporting those who didn’t meet their goals, building each other up.

At the end of NaNoWriMo I was genuinely impressed by all the love given to those that achieved and didn’t achieve the 50K. I was inspired by writers abandoning their manuscripts half way through November and changing ideas, inspired by those that didn’t make it to the 50K but found the positives: they were becoming more disciplined at writing, they had written more than they otherwise would have, they got most of the way towards their goal and would continue into December. Other writers sharing their journeys was very powerful and inspiring to me.

What I would do differently

No regrets, this was my first NaNoWriMo experience, and I’m proud of it. But when I do this again in 2019, I will:


Part of the reason I lost traction after a week was that I really didn’t know where I was going with the story. I had to sit down with a whole bunch of post-it notes and figure out the scenes, the incidents, character development, what I had written and what needed to be written. I would spend more of October prepping, ‘Preptober’ as they call it, so I didn’t encounter such a big roadblock early on.


In the first week, I aimed to get to 1,667 words per day. I didn’t factor into the equation zero-word days, family events or getting sick. If I aimed for 2,000-2,500 words per day earlier on, I wouldn’t have gotten so far behind and had a buffer for days where writing couldn’t happen. The Twitter sprints were very motivating and I only found these in the last week, so I’d be doing sprinting earlier.

Overall, NaNoWriMo was a wild ride. A month of sleeplessness and anxiety  at falling behind, but a lot of motivation, great connections with the writing world and a fantastic feeling on 30 November, I did it- I achieved my goal and I’ve written a novel in a month. A DRAFT novel in a month. Now on to editing this beast of a manuscript…

Thank you to my wonderful family, particularly my husband and Mum for their support during this crazy month. Thanks for believing in me and supporting my dream chasing!

Did you attempt NaNoWriMo?

If you did attempt NaNoWriMo, good on you! If you ‘won’, congratulations. If you didn’t, congratulations! You made progress; you may have increased your word count, thought more or done some planning on your story, decided it wasn’t for you (I saw some writers reference quantity vs. quality which is a great point) or even abandoned the manuscript and thought of a better idea. Either way, I think experiencing NaNoWriMo had a purpose for all of us.

I’d love to hear from you, what your experience was, and what you learnt from your experience. Comment below!